One subject I receive direct messages about is honesty, how being so honest & raw is quite hard, & how much they appreciate that I am.
It does take guts to be completely honest, no holes barred, just the raw emotion. I run on emotions, I feel everything very deeply, & I am hurt easily by those I love.
Sometimes I do write when I am in that place of hurt, a relationship is not all roses, if you really love someone, you will be hurt.
It’s not a bad thing to be hurt, I am not talking about the the big things, I am talking about little things, you feeling they were critical of you, when all they did was ask if you remembered to do something.
When you commit to someone this is something to remember, you will be hurt, you will get angry & you will argue.
You will also laugh, you will love, have fun, explore each other’s body in the most pleasurable way. You will have more good times then bad.
So for me honesty is important, & when I write I write from the heart, the hurt, the pleasure or the emotions involved.
It is hard to bare your soul, but I think it is important to be honest & vulnerable, I want to teach my daughter to be honest.
Not to hide how she is feeling, allow herself to feel things, so she never has to give herself permission to be happy, it’s an emotion she will just feel, along with depression if or when it comes calling. She will be able to voice it, talk about it.
I see others who are honest & I always make a point of saying thank you, as sometimes it is not easy.
As for how my partner feels having my emotions & the effect she has written about for everyone to read? She is in awe, as to her being able to express herself clearly emotionally has always been a struggle.